• Log In
  • Join
  • Shop
  • Donate
The Christian Medical Fellowship: Uniting & equipping Christian doctors & nurses to live & speak for Jesus Christ.
  • 0Shopping Cart
Christian Medical Fellowship
  • About
    • About
      • the Christian Medical Fellowship unites and equips Christian doctors and nurses to live and speak for Jesus Christ. We were formed in 1949. We currently have 4,000 doctors, 500 medical and nursing students, and 450 nurses and midwives as members.
      • Who we are

        find out about us and contact the team
        • heritage
        • staff
        • trustees
        • vacancies
      • What we do

        • aims
        • what we do
        • frequently asked questions
      • What we believe

        the core beliefs and values behind CMF, and who we associate and work with
        • statement of faith
        • affiliations
  • News
    • Latest News
      • what we are writing about
        • Blogs
      • westminister

        A moment for thankfulness: on running short of time

        February 27, 2026
        Read more
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/02/westminister-scaled.png 1188 2560 christianmf https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png christianmf2026-02-27 11:32:422026-02-27 11:34:06A moment for thankfulness: on running short of time
        person writing a letter

        A letter to our fellow resident doctors

        December 12, 2025
        Read more
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Dear-fellow-Residents.-1.png 1440 2560 christianmf https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png christianmf2025-12-12 17:55:582025-12-13 18:23:30A letter to our fellow resident doctors

        the trouble with opt-outs

        December 1, 2025
        Read more
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/organ-donation.jpg 240 400 Trevor Stammers https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png Trevor Stammers2025-12-01 08:00:492025-11-27 13:23:42the trouble with opt-outs
  • Events
    • Latest Events
      • book in for CMF conferences, training days, and other events for Christians in the healing and caring professions
      • Current Month

        Date

        Event Type

        All

        Doctors

        Global

        Nurses & Midwives

        Resident Doctors

        Students

        02mar(mar 2)7:30 pm23(mar 23)9:30 pm Saline Soultion Course

        Event Details

        Every Christian health professional has a unique opportunity to improve their patients’ physical and spiritual health, but many feel frustrated by the challenge of integrating faith and practice within time

        Event Details

        Every Christian health professional has a unique opportunity to improve their patients’ physical and spiritual health, but many feel frustrated by the challenge of integrating faith and practice within time constraints and legal obligations.

        However, the medical literature increasingly recognises the important link between spirituality and health and GMC guidelines approve discussion of faith issues with patients provided that it is done appropriately and sensitively.

        Christians are called to be ‘the salt of the earth’. Saline Solution is a course designed to help Christian healthcare professionals bring Christ and his good news into their work. It has helped hundreds become more comfortable and adept at practising medicine that addresses the needs of the whole person.

        Monday 2, 9, 16, 23 March, 7.30-9.30pm online

         

        more

        Time

        March 2, 2026 7:30 pm - march 23, 2026 9:30 pm(GMT+00:00)

        CalendarGoogleCal

        11apr10:00 am4:30 pmDublin Day ConferenceBringing Faith into Healthcare

        Event Details

        We are delighted to announce that bookings are open for the first CMF Day Conference in Dublin. On Saturday 11 April we will be gathering at Grosvenor Baptist Church for

        Event Details

        We are delighted to announce that bookings are open for the first CMF Day Conference in Dublin. On Saturday 11 April we will be gathering at Grosvenor Baptist Church for a day helping Christian healthcare professionals bring Christ and his good news into their work.

        We will be using the Saline course, which equips you to recognise opportunities to encourage colleagues and patients to take one step closer to God, sharing the gospel with sensitivity, respect, and genuine care.

        All healthcare professionals are welcome. There will also be plenty of time to connect with others who share your heart for Christ and healthcare in Ireland. We’d love to see you there!

        Bookings close at 12pm on Tuesday, 7 April 2026

        more

        Time

        April 11, 2026 10:00 am - 4:30 pm(GMT+00:00)

        CalendarGoogleCal

        Yarnfield, Stone ST15 0NLYarnfield Park Training & Conference Centre

        07may(may 7)3:30 pm08(may 8)5:00 pmNAMfest 2026Dressed in Christ and ready for work

        Event Details

        Dressed in Christ, ready for work Thursday 7 - Friday 8 May 2026, Yarnfield Park Training & Conference Centre, Staffordshire, 

        Event Details

        Dressed in Christ, ready for work

        Thursday 7 – Friday 8 May 2026,

        Yarnfield Park Training & Conference Centre, Staffordshire, ST15 0NL

        It’s seven o’clock, so it’s time to get changed. He pulls his lanyard over his head, unpins his name badge and stuffs them both in his rucksack as he heads home. She ties up the drawstrings of her scrub trousers and slips on her Crocs before heading onto the ward for handover. These are their end and beginning rituals, of putting off and putting on.

        The apostle Paul encouraged Christians in the early church to change their attire, too. He instructed them to doff their old self, and their former way of life, and to don their ‘…new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness’. (Ephesians 4 :24b)

        What impact would it have if we stepped into Christ’s changing room and took off old garments that weigh heavily and hinder us? Could we see a shift change in toxic workplace cultures, too, as we clothe ourselves distinctly in his love? As we gather together at NAMfest, we’ll be asking God for changeover. May he renew our minds and break through in our workplaces.

        Cost:

        £95 for full NAMfest (£75 for students)

        £45 for a Friday day ticket only; includes lunch

        Bookings close on 7 April 2026

        more

        Time

        May 7, 2026 3:30 pm - may 8, 2026 5:00 pm(GMT+00:00)

        Location

        Yarnfield, Stone ST15 0NL

        Yarnfield Park Training & Conference Centre

        CalendarGoogleCal

        25sep(sep 25)5:00 pm18mar(mar 18)5:00 pmGlobal Track 2026-28

        Event Details

        Join CMF’s 18‑month Global Track, running from September 2026 to March 2028! The track is designed for medics, nurses, midwives and allied health professionals who are exploring or preparing for work

        Event Details

        Join CMF’s 18‑month Global Track, running from September 2026 to March 2028!

        The track is designed for medics, nurses, midwives and allied health professionals who are exploring or preparing for work in global health and mission.

        We especially welcome students in the final three years of their course, as well as graduates in the early stages of their careers, as the programme is structured to fit comfortably alongside ongoing studies, placements or work commitments.

        This will be our sixth cohort, building on years of experience delivering the programme.

        What’s Included
        • Residential & In‑Person Training: An introductory weekend residential with teaching, five Saturday training days at CMF HQ led by global health mission speakers, and a cross‑cultural training day in the UK.
        • Online Learning: Four two‑hour Wednesday evening webinars, and two assignments to help you reflect and apply your learning.
        • CMF Global Summer Mission Conference: Your place includes conference access with lectures, practical skills sessions, and workshops on healthcare in resource‑poor settings.
        • Mentoring: You’ll be paired with a mentor experienced in overseas missions for personalised support throughout the programme.
        • Vision Trip: Join one of three short‑term mission vision trips. If you can’t make these dates, we can consider your elective or another short-term mission trip instead.
        Course Fee

        £500

        Please note that this fee doesn’t include your travel, accommodation or extra days at the Global Summer Mission Conference, or the costs connected with your vision trip.
        We can provide a support letter if you’d like to invite prayer or financial support from your church, family, or friends.

        How to Apply
        Applications for the Global Track are now open, and close on Monday 30 March at 5:00 PM BST.

        To apply, email globaltrack@cmf.org.uk to request the application form.

         

        In Partnership With:

        more

        Time

        September 25, 2026 5:00 pm - march 18, 2028 5:00 pm(GMT+00:00)

        CalendarGoogleCal

        The Neptune22 Marine Terrace, Criccieth LL52 0EF

        28sep(sep 28)6:00 pm02oct(oct 2)10:00 amMedicine, Mission and Me 2026

        Event Details

        BOOK ONLINE Come and join us for 4 nights in Criccieth, where the mountains meet the sea, to consider the needs in the world today, learn

        Event Details

        Come and join us for 4 nights in Criccieth, where the mountains meet the sea, to consider the needs in the world today, learn more about what the Bible teaches about mission and see what God is doing.

        We’ll think about what it means to make disciples and how to demonstrate God’s love in practical action. There will be the opportunity to work through practical questions, learn from each other and think through how we could be involved now and in the future. There will be time for Bible study, prayer, praise, learning in groups, wild swimming, walks and personal reflection.

        Who is it for?
        Christian students and health care professionals and their spouses/partners wanting to learn more about mission and considering how they may get involved in the future.

        MMM26 Programme

        Facilitators:
        Organised by Christian Medical Fellowship’s Global team and joined by guests with a broad experience of cross-cultural mission work and medicine in different contexts.

        Accommodation and things to do:
        The Neptune is a beautifully positioned larg
        e house with sea views towards Snowdonia and across the Irish Sea. It overlooks a beach where you can swim, even in September (although you may prefer to bring a wetsuit!). See the Neptune self-catering guest house: www.theneptune.org.uk

        There is plenty of B&B and self-catering accommodation available locally should you prefer that. Criccieth is a popular holiday destination with beaches, coffee shops, art galleries, an ice cream parlour and a castle. Within a short drive there is the Snowdonia National Park and opportunities for watersports.

        Cost

        Doctors and Dentists £390
        Nurses/Midwives/AHP £280
        Married couples £580
        Students (you will be required to share a room) £200

        This includes food, accommodation and course costs.

        Getting there
        You would need to book your own travel to arrive on Monday and leave on Friday.
        Address: 22 Marine Terrace, Criccieth, Gwynedd LL52 0EF.
        By train the nearest mainline station is Bangor, Gwynedd, we will endeavour to help with lifts from the station (40 mins away).
        Via Manchester Airport – you can offset the carbon at climatestewards.org

        Enquiries to: globalcoordinator@cmf.org.uk

        more

        Time

        September 28, 2026 6:00 pm - october 2, 2026 10:00 am(GMT+00:00)

        Location

        The Neptune

        22 Marine Terrace, Criccieth LL52 0EF

        CalendarGoogleCal

      • See all events
  • Ministries
    • Ministries
      • the heart and soul of the fellowship
        • senior doctors and retirees
        • resident doctors
        • students
        • nurses & midwives
        • global
        • ethics, advocacy & public policy
        • volunteering & training
        • pastoral
        • member services
        • other
  • Resources
    • Resources
      • CMF's resources are there for Christians working or studying in the health professions, as well as for churches and Christians in general
        • publications
        • bookstore
        • blogs
        • subject archive
        • podcasts
        • global resources
        • prayer resources
      • https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/Cover.png 503 359 Steve Fouch https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png Steve Fouch2025-10-17 14:46:542025-11-06 20:06:28Triple Helix – autumn 2025
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/Freshers-Nucleus.png 610 424 Steve Fouch https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png Steve Fouch2025-09-05 14:54:582025-09-05 14:54:58Freshers’ Nucleus 2025
        spotlight winter 2025
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/featured-spotlight-winter-25-image.png 737 733 christianmf https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png christianmf2025-12-15 18:16:442025-12-15 18:16:44spotlight | winter 2026
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/CMFFile78Thumbnail.png 1056 752 christianmf https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png christianmf2025-11-03 13:58:142025-11-06 20:48:28CMF file 78 – ethics: a matter of principle
        prayer diary dec to march 26 thumbnail
        https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/prayer-diary-dec-to-march-26-thumbnail.png 373 258 christianmf https://www.cmf.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/CMF-Logo-MONO-TRANSPARENT-340px.png christianmf2025-12-01 13:30:392025-12-01 13:30:39Prayer Diary | December 2025-March 2026
  • Contact
    • Contact Us
      • We aim to reply as quickly as possible. If you want us to telephone, please include a phone number in your email text.
      • Member services

        for any communications and questions about CMF membership
        • member services ministry page
        • financial queries
        • frequently asked questions
        • privacy policy
        • safeguarding policy
        • legal and copyright
      • Room hire

        looking for a meeting place in London? Our meeting rooms are available in central London
        • conference and meeting rooms
      • Get in Touch

        • contact CMF
  • Search
  • Menu Menu
  • About
    • Who We Are
      • Our Heritage
      • CMF Staff Team
      • Trustees
      • Vacancies at CMF
    • What We Do
      • our aims
      • What We Do
      • Frequently asked questions
    • What We Believe
      • Statement of faith
      • Affiliations
  • News
  • Events
  • Ministries
    • Seniors
    • Residents
    • Students
    • Nurses & midwives
    • Global
    • Ethics, Advocacy & Public Policy
    • Volunteering & training
    • Pastoral
    • Member services
    • Other ministries
  • Resources
    • Publications
    • Bookstore
    • Blog
    • Student Archives
    • Podcasts
    • Global Resources
    • Prayer Resources
  • Contact
    • Members Services
      • Member services
      • Privacy Policy
      • Safeguarding Policy
      • legal matters
    • Room Hire
    • Get in touch

Dementia – A 21st century challenge

Dementia is on the increase, and is often more feared than a cancer diagnosis, not least because it is as yet incurable. But what is it, how can we respond to it, and how does the Bible help us to think about its challenges?

Introduction

There are many different types of dementia, each with its own problems and prognosis. It is predicted that one million people in the UK will have dementia by 2025 and that this will increase to two million by 2050. Globally, 5.2 per cent of people over the age of 60 years are living with dementia. Dementia can affect anyone, usually adults. The first case of Alzheimer’s disease was described in a lady of 50 years of age, but most people affected by dementia are older (over 85 years of age). As the population ages, the number of people who have dementia will increase. People frequently live with dementia for many years. Writing about dementia is difficult due to the different types (some people will have a mix of dementias), various manifestations and different trajectories around prognosis. [1, 2, 3] People are at increased risk of developing dementia if, for example, they have a history of brain damage secondary to head injury (heading a football, boxing), previous stroke, smoking, excessive alcohol intake, diabetes, high blood pressure and insufficient exercise. Dementia may also occur alongside other conditions; for example, Parkinson’s disease, Down syndrome or Multiple Sclerosis. Dementia may start as a little forgetfulness which can be covered up. This will progress to difficulty in coping with complex tasks and busy environments, resulting in agitation and anxiety. The progression of dementia is not a straight line. The sequence of cognitive loss is intimately connected with people’s social and historical circumstances. [4]Even if the dementia is advanced, there may be lucid moments of understanding and recognition. Yuen writes that ‘these moments are extremely gratifying, like receiving a postcard from a friend who is constantly travelling’. [5] The time eventually arrives when everyday life is interrupted: getting lost when going out and then around the home; problems washing and dressing and preparing food. Places and objects may not be recognised, resulting in misplacing objects, using buckets as toilets. Finally, incontinence and difficulty swallowing occur, which is when families may find it all too much, and the person with dementia is moved to a care home. The best approach to the management of dementia is prevention: leading a healthy lifestyle, being sociable and active. Once dementia onset has been identified, care and management include holistically looking after the individual and supporting the family through the various stages and eventually planning for death. Presently there are no medications that can cure dementia, but some are thought to slow its progression for some people for a while. There is no question that dementia presents challenges both to the person affected and to those caring for them. In the initial stages, life continues as usual with a few minor adjustments and those outside the family may not be aware of any problems. Over time there will be changes to memory, personality, behaviour, speech, swallowing and mobility. How will we respond to these changes? For many, the diagnosis of dementia brings fear and anxiety for the present and the future. Not many people would suggest that dementia could be a gift from God, but this is how Dr Jennifer Bute describes her personal experiences of living well with dementia – fully embracing her dementia and actively seeking to derive something positive from her experiences. She tells and lives her story of faith and how, for her, God is in her dementia. [6]

Identity

My identity is defined by who I am. By my job, my family, my hobbies and my role at church when I am there. If someone with dementia cannot recognise their family, or recall their life story, let alone know who they are and where they are; are they the person they were? [7] Has their identity been lost? The loss of identity associated with dementia can be very distressing both for the person with dementia and their family. When the ability to continue in these roles diminishes, we can feel that the core of who we are is being lost. In life, some roles diminish, adapt to circumstances or change. Does a parent or spouse ever stop being one? There is a danger that if we constructively remove people from their societal roles, they will slowly become invisible. Yet as Christians, we believe that our identity is a gift of God, freely given to us by him, not something we need to find externally. He has promised that he will remain with us forever and tells us that he knows us far better than we know ourselves.

Being human

In his song, Human, Rag ‘n’ Bone man sings…’I am Human’. [8] But what do we mean by being human? When does a person become fully human, and protected under the law, as far as society is concerned? A biblical explanation of being human can be found in Genesis 1:26-27. ‘Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.” So, God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them: male and female he created them’.[9] At the core of the biblical concept of humanity is to be a bearer of the image of God and to fulfil his work in creation. In the early stages of dementia, the question of ‘being human’ is not one that is raised, let alone debated. The more immediate question could be, ‘When are we human’? When do we start being human and do we ever stop? Is being human only a phase of our life? Are we human only during those years when we are productive? Are we no longer considered to reflect God’s image outside of this?

Personhood

Defining personhood is a controversial topic in philosophy and law. It is closely tied with legal and political concepts of citizenship, equality, and liberty. [10] Personalities are complex, a balance between behaviour governed by rational thought and that governed by emotions. If personhood is a balance between the rational and the emotional, might one dominate the other at times? Does personhood diminish if the capacity for autonomy or independence is lost? Personhood can be maintained where interaction is maintained. But if our response to people with dementia is to withdraw, either because we don’t know what to say or do for the best, or because we (wrongly) assume that ‘there’s no-one at home’, then we fail to acknowledge and celebrate their personhood and miss the opportunity to affirm their value. Do people stop being human persons when they develop dementia?We can easily attribute too much value to our intelligence and functional capacities. God, however, does not measure value on such scales. He sees our value rooted in nothing less than our being made in his image and redeemed by Christ. [11] Seen through the eyes of God, a person with dementia is no less human, has not lost their selfhood. Whilst from a human and clinical perspective in advanced dementia key elements of perceived personhood may appear severely impaired, the ultimate issue is ‘not the cognitive and relational capacities of human beings but the infinitely greater cognitive and relational capacities of God Himself ‘. [12] That which makes us human and constitutes the image of God in us is the fact that God holds us in mind. ‘O Lord, you have searched me and known me’. (Psalm 139:1)

Spiritual separation

Does dementia separate someone from God? Learnt tasks and words such as songs/hymns and liturgy may persist far longer than the ability to converse. The ability to understand the significance of Liturgy and Holy Communion may remain even when others may assume otherwise. Conversely, the loss of ability to comprehend God’s presence or be able to speak to him can be frightening and engender in some people with dementia the fear that God has forgotten or abandoned them. Will God abandon, or forget someone with dementia, even if their capacity or competence is reduced? Can God forget? Neither dementia nor any other illness can separate us from God. As Paul writes, ‘For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, [nor dementia], nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.’ (Romans 8:38-39) Theologian Karl Barth says that God seeks us more than we seek God. [13] Our personhood depends less on our own particular state than on God’s love and grace. He cannot and will not forget us. [14] As John Swinton says, even if our memory is compromised, we are living in the memories of God. Confident that God is with us no matter what, it is contrary to our teaching to reject the body in any way. [15]

Physical separation

Many older people have no family or friends still living. With increasing age, their social circle diminishes. As cognitive and physical function declines, the ability to leave home to go shopping or attend a place of worship is reduced. Any opportunity to meet others is restricted, and isolation may set in. It may not take long before they are forgotten by the congregation that they used to attend, reducing opportunities for fellowship. The time may come when their physical or cognitive needs are too great to be supported any longer in the community. Social services often cannot provide night cover or continuous day cover, leaving a cognitively or physically frail person at risk. Moving into a care home may mean moving out of the area they have lived in for many years, fracturing any remaining support or reference points that they may have had. Residential care means moving into a setting full of strangers, with a loss of familiar surroundings, restricted freedom of movement, shared facilities and maybe even a shared bedroom. This can ultimately mean a loss of dignity and privacy.

Liberty and safety

There will come a time as a person’s dementia progresses when a balance must be struck between liberty and safety. A time when decision-making needs to be challenged because awareness of danger is deficient. When is behaviour unacceptable or dangerous, rather than just eccentric? At this stage, we have to ask: are decisions always made in the best interests of the person with dementia, or to placate the sensibilities and anxieties of family and clinicians? When going for a walk can be fraught with danger as familiar landmarks are no longer recognised and the ability to find the way home is lost, inevitably a conflict will arise between freedom of movement and keeping a person safe. Technology can provide some help. Sensors linked to a computer can trigger an alarm when the door is opened unexpectedly; GPS in a mobile telephone, smartwatch or bracelet can help track someone’s position. An alarm can be programmed to alert someone if a predefined boundary is breached. Within the home, families often use webcams and other devices to monitor movement around a flat or house. However, technology can never replace human care, and we must carefully consider the implications of monitoring a person’s actions and whereabouts without their knowledge and consent. Capacity is important in this context – the ability to make a decision and understand its consequences. Does the person with dementia have the capacity, and therefore the freedom to decide, even if to everyone else that decision would be bad? [16, 17]. If there is concern amongst carers or healthcare professionals that a person with dementia lacks the capacity to make an informed decision about their care they can apply for ‘Deprivation of Liberty’ (DOLs) authorisation, via the local authority or the Court of Protection to put appropriate, proportionate restrictions in place. However, where health and social care are not involved, this statute does not apply.

Communication

Over time, communication can become increasingly difficult, and the person with dementia may seem not to be behaving rationally or logically to us. However, it may be entirely logical to them. Understanding may be hidden in past life experiences. Expression of pain or physical needs may be difficult, which may result in agitation, frustration and aggression. We must not forget that communication is two-way. We may not understand their needs, but they may not understand our requests either. Non-verbal communication may be more effective and will need to be learnt for each individual to identify some of their needs.

Collusion or orientation?

As people progress through the stages of dementia, they may well become disorientated in time and place. What is the best course of action for carers in these situations? Should they collude, correct or reorientate? As with many things, the answer is yes and no, or it depends. In the early to mid-stages, reorientation and correction may be the best option. Bringing someone into the here and now will provide the opportunity to interact in a meaningful way. Later in the disease progression, collusion is probably the best strategy. Why? Simply because of the time frame that person may be living in. Their brain may be firmly situated, for instance, in the time of their youth, when they had no children; therefore, they will deny being married or having children.

  • Example A: On one occasion, a lady could not understand why her mother denied having children or being married, until one day, when her mother signed the visitors’ book in a church using her maiden name – then everything clicked. Reorientation attempts for this lady had caused great distress.
  • Example B: A gentleman living in a care home, would sit in the corridor shouting at people as they went past. Eventually, the staff learned that he had spent time clearing minefields after the war. To him, the hallway was a minefield, and his shouts were to ensure their safety. Colluding and following his advice took a few extra seconds but also pleased him and reduced tensions.

Are either of these lies, or are they good, empathetic care? I would suggest this is an example of the right care at the right time.

Behaviour

Different parts of the brain control various aspects of our physical, sensory and emotional being. A person with dementia may suffer a personality change, from being placid to aggressive; polite to rude; calm and collected to erratic. It is important to interpret these in the context of their dementia. Is the aggression due to frustration and the way people respond to them; or are they aggressive because the frontal lobes are disproportionately affected? A display of aggression or rudeness may be an understandable response to carers who fail to show respect to a person with dementia, by adopting a paternalistic attitude, treating them as children! A sudden movement towards someone with advanced dementia, invading their personal space without warning, may result in them being startled and to a physical push back. Should we be surprised?

Physical functions

When we talk about dementia, most people tend to think about the cognitive and communication losses involved and forget the physical implications. All bodily processes are, however, controlled by the brain. Some, such as walking and continence, had to be learnt, and as parts of the brain deteriorate, those skills are lost. They can be managed with help, though – catheters for incontinence; support from carers, and later wheelchairs for mobility issues.

Eating & drinking

Swallowing, however, is harder to manage. Initially, swallowing can be maintained by altering the consistency of food and liquids, but ultimately a person with dementia may lose the ability to swallow. An immediate reaction is to consider the use of tube feeding. Certainly, tube feeding provides nutrition, but there is no evidence that its use in the end stages of dementia improves someone’s condition, improves their quality of life or prolongs their life. This does not mean that food should not be offered for comfort. Decisions regarding eating and drinking are difficult and distressing for all concerned, and the arguments surrounding the withholding or withdrawal of feeding are explored further in CMF File 69. [18] Note that having a compromised swallow does not mean that the elements of communion cannot be received. A wafer dipped in wine and placed on the tongue to dissolve, is no less than many people do each week.

End of life

As life draws to an end, appropriate care needs to be considered. Eating and drinking may become difficult, mobility will reduce and incontinence, if not already a problem, may well become so. This can be a stressful time for all concerned. Best care may not mean transfer to a hospital. People will naturally eat and drink less as their life comes to a close. Repeated attendance at a hospital just causes distress with no added benefit to life and should be avoided wherever possible. If possible, care should be provided within a home environment, with support from healthcare, social care and the church.

What does the Bible say?

The Bible has little to say specifically about dementia, but it does say a lot about older people, illness and infirmity. Solomon writing in Ecclesiastes chapter 12 sums up frailty; when King David was ‘old, [and] advanced in years’, he could not keep warm [19] Isaac said, ‘I am now an old man and don’t know the day of my death.’ (Genesis 27:2) Paul writes ‘I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.’ (2 Timothy 4:7) When something negative happens, and people are physically damaged, the questions ‘why me?’ and ‘why would God allow it?’ naturally arise. Job asked similar questions when he was afflicted with skin sores and had also lost his family and wealth. [20] Risner states that ‘everything in my life can direct me to Christ’. [21] We may never know the answer to the question, but God invites us to trust in him. Christ has experienced our physical and emotional pain and will walk with us through all our struggles.

Dementia & Christian hope

God became human to enable humanity to be restored to a full relationship with him. When this occurs, the new order will come in, and the old order will be washed away. Then there will be no suffering and pain. At the resurrection, everyone will have a close and restored relationship with God. We do not know what our bodies and brains will be like, but we are promised that there will be an end to death, mourning, crying, and pain after the resurrection. [22] God is present in all our suffering. He is present in and through our forgetfulness. Dementia has the potential to be a grace-filled moment in our existence to show us something more of who God is and what it means to know him. How we treat people as their minds and bodies move towards death can either confer value and dignity upon them or rob them of it. God calls us to be his ambassadors in the world and beacons of light in the darkness. We are reminded in the Scriptures that whenever we help a person with dementia in need, we have an opportunity to reflect God’s glory and love. Society values people according to their intelligence, looks and abilities; God, however, sees our value rooted in the fact that we are made in his image, redeemed by Christ and adopted into his family. In his eyes, a person with dementia is of no less worth than the professor, the film star or the sporting legend.

Caring for people with dementia

Acceptance of the diagnosis by the person and their family is key to accessing and accepting good care. Deal with concerns as they arise. Encourage independence and the status quo where possible. Ensure identity is maintained; look for role adaptation rather than removal where possible. Fear and concern following the diagnosis can lead to overprotection – an attempt to remove all risk and danger – resulting in the person with dementia becoming patronised, marginalised, isolated, having needless dependency imposed on them (eg taking a driving licence away, taking over tasks before being requested) and deprived of autonomy. This approach is likely to accelerate the rate of decline from dementia with increased memory loss, functional decline and dependency, resulting in early institutionalisation. Care provision for people with dementia needs to be integrated: families, social care and healthcare, and voluntary agencies (including the church) must work in collaboration to provide a holistic, effective and prompt service, tailored to need, including discussions around where someone with dementia should best live. Books by Bute, Gwande, and Neuberger provide interesting insights into opportunities around care (see suggested further reading). Dementia can be accelerated, slowed and partially put in reverse (sometimes called rementing) by our response to the person with dementia. Their personality may have changed, but our reaction to the person may also change. The command to love our neighbours as we love ourselves does not expire when they no longer recognise us or welcome our care. In 1 Timothy Paul reminds us not to ‘rebuke an older man (or woman) harshly but to exhort him as if he were your father (or mother)’ (1 Timothy 5:1-2); in the latter stages of dementia, the temptation to be harsh is all too real. The whole Christian community must recognise and respond to the challenge of continuous, ongoing spiritual engagement, support and care for those with dementia. The best approach is to retain familiarity, surround people with memories; recognised favourite objects; photograph albums, and family members. Congregations should be encouraged to increase their dementia awareness, for example, by becoming members of Dementia Friends (Alzheimer’s Society). You may not be recognised, and your visit may not be remembered, but during the visit, you are bringing friendship and company, being a conduit for God’s love and reflecting his glory.

Christian healthcare professionals

Christian healthcare professionals are likely to be called upon to support a person with dementia as a part of their professional role. They will also be part of a local fellowship. They can assist that community by raising awareness of dementia care, by helping it develop a welcoming and supportive environment for those with dementia, and by promoting collaboration with wider support services that can provide invaluable advice. Given the above challenges, is there not a case to be made for more Christian healthcare professionals to pursue direct vocational involvement in the care of people with dementia? There are many opportunities not only to provide care but to influence research and policy at both local and national levels. Research is needed into all areas of care and treatment, including community integration, the effectiveness of dementia villages, use of artificial intelligence and robotics. Biomedical research needs to concentrate on aetiology, avenues of prevention, intervention, and possibly cure.

Concluding remarks

Dementia is a complex disease, that has a major impact on all those affected by it, as patients, families and carers. People with dementia deserve to be treated with respect and love, remembering that they are made in God’s image and remain part of God’s family no matter how cognitively impaired they may become. Whenever we meet someone who is vulnerable, such as someone with dementia, we are meeting someone precious to God; let’s be sure not to turn them away!
David G Smithard is a Visiting Professor at the University of Greenwich and a Consultant Geriatrician.

Further Reading

RESOURCES ON DEMENTIA

CMF RESOURCES
Randall D. Mental capacity and consent. CMF File 60, 2016. cmf.li/2UJzmha
Thomas R. Assisted suicide. CMF File 56, 2015. cmf.li/2QMfuZx
Morris S. How a dwindling London parish is reversing its fortunes: Memory Café. Spotlight, spring 2018. cmf.li/3dE9MDd Saunders P. The real challenge of care. Triple Helix, spring 2013. cmf.li/2WP3NFh
Wyatt J. Caring in the light of eternity. Triple Helix, spring 2014. cmf.li/2xykw59 Wyatt J. What is a Person? Nucleus, spring 2004. cmf.li/2QMh39R

Bibliography

RESOURCES ON DEMENTIA
BOOKS
1. Collicutt J. Thinking of You. A resource for the spiritual care of people with dementia. Abingdon: Bible Reading Fellowship, 2017
2. Bute J, Morse L. Dementia from the inside. A Doctor’s Personal Journey of Hope. London: SPCK), 2018 3. Cutting W A M. Dementia: A Positive Response. Oxford: Onwards and Upwards Publishers. 2018 4. Morse L. Dementia: Pathways to Hope: Spiritual Insights and Practical Advice. London: Monarch Books, 2016
5. Gwande A. Being Mortal. London: Wellcome Collection, 2015
6. Neuberger J. Not Dead Yet. London: Harper Collins, 2008
7. Dementia: ethical issues. London: Nuffield Council of Bioethics, 2009

Author details

  • David Smithard

    A Consultant in Geriatric Medicine at Lewisham and Greenwich NHS Trust, a Visiting Professor at the University of Greenwich and is the Triple Helix Editor.

    View all posts

Related Publication


  • CMF File 71 – Dementia

References

1. CMF resources and articles on dementia at cmf.li/33ucXIN
2. National Institute of Health and Care Excellence (NICE). Clinical Knowledge Summary (CKS): Dementia(2019)cks.nice.org.uk/dementia 3. Alzheimer’s Society (2014a) Dementia 2014, Infographic. Alzheimer’s Society. alzheimers.org.uk/about-us/policy- and-influencing/dementia-uk-report.
4. Kevern P. Alzheimer’s and the dementia of God. International Journal of PublicTheology 4 (2010) 237-253
5. Swinton J. Dementia. Living in the memories of God. London: SCM Press. 2012
6. Bute J, Morse L. Dementia from the inside. A Doctor’s Personal Journey of Hope. Society for Promoting Christian Knowledge. SPCK 2018. spck.org.uk
7. Kevern Op.Cit.
8. Rag’n’Bone Man. Human. From the album Human, Sony, 21 July 2016. bit.ly/398Ihy9
9. Genesis 1:26-27. 10. Scheve T. What is personhood? How stuff works. bit.ly/3a54RZt
11. Dunlop J. God will keep you through dementia. Desiring God. 13 October 2017. bit.ly/33udOsZ
12. Collicutt J. Thinking of You. A resource for the spiritual care of people with dementia. Abingdon: Bible Reading Fellowship. 2017
13. Morrison S D. Karl Barth on ‘God is Love’. SDMorrison.org. 2020. bit.ly/2U0AvBZ
14. Isaiah 49:15-16 15. Swinton. Op.Cit. 16. Mental capacity tool kit. British Medical Association 2016. bit.ly/33weRZg
17. Mental Capacity Act 2005 bit.ly/2QvxuYe 18. Thomas R. No water, no life. CMF File 69 2019. cmf.li/3baSknI
19. 2 Kings 1:1
20. eg Job 3 21. Risner V R. God Uses Everything: Why Our Suffering Is Never Wasted. Desiring God, 2019. bit.ly/2wc7NoM22 Revelation 21:4

Unless otherwise stated, Scripture quotations taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version Anglicised. Copyright © 1979, 1984, 2011 Biblica. Used by permission of Hodder & Stoughton Publishers, an Hachette UK company. All rights reserved. ‘NIV’ is a registered trademark of Biblica. UK trademark number 1448790.

Pages

  • About
  • Advocacy & Public Policy
  • Affiliations
  • All FAQs (Helpie FAQ)
  • Articles, briefing papers and blogs
  • Associates
  • Audio, imagery, and video consent
  • Basket
  • Become a Workplace link/Welcomer
  • Blog
  • Bookstore
  • Bringing people together to make a difference
  • Catalyst Teams
  • Change Contact Details
  • Change Your Membership
  • Checkout
  • Christians in Healthcare Leadership Network
  • Christians in Healthcare Leadership Network (Emerging Leaders)
  • CMF Catalyst Teams & specialty leaders pre-conference
  • CMF Connect | National Conference 2025
  • CMF Connect | Residents’ Conference 2025
  • CMF Global – CMF File Latest Banner
  • CMF Global – Nucleus Latest Banner
  • CMF Global – Prayer Diary Latest Banner
  • CMF Global – Spotlight Latest Banner
  • CMF Global – Triple Helix Latest Banner
  • CMF Global Christmas greetings
  • CMF Global Element – FAQs
  • CMF Group Locator
  • CMF Home
  • CMF Ireland
  • CMF Podcasts
  • CMF Scholar
  • CMF Staff Team
  • CMF’s Values
  • Conference and Meeting Rooms
  • Contact
  • could I be a mentor
  • CTCA summary
  • Current Consultations
  • Current teams
  • Day of Prayer for the Health Service | 2026
  • DeepER Fellowship Opportunities
  • Doctors
  • Donations
  • Electives
  • Euro Membership
  • Euro Membership Rates
  • Events
  • Events at CMF
  • Facts
  • Find Us
  • Finger on the Pulse podcast
  • Frequently asked questions
  • Freshers
  • Friends
  • Gift Aid Declaration
  • Global
  • Global Christmas Card
  • Global opportunities
  • Global Resources
  • Global Track
  • Graduating
  • Health + Care Sunday
  • Helpie FAQ – Group Sample
  • Home-based roles
  • How can we serve you?
  • international health professionals
  • Job Opportunities
  • Junior Doctors’ Conference 2024 Programme
  • Legacies
  • legal matters
  • Lessons from the Archive | Mark Pickering
  • Local student groups map
  • Log In
  • Login temporarily suspended
  • Meet the team
  • Meet the team
  • Member services
  • Member’s Mentoring Scheme
  • Membership
  • Membership Account
  • Membership Billing
  • Membership Cancel
  • Membership Checkout
  • Membership Confirmation
  • Membership Invoice
  • Membership Levels
  • mentoring – a great way to grow
  • Ministries
  • My account
  • Namfest Programme
  • National Conference 2025 programme
  • National Conference 2025 Weekend
  • National Conference Programme
  • NMC review of the Code and revalidation survey
  • Nucleus
  • Nurses & midwives
  • Office-based roles
  • Other events for students
  • Other ministries
  • our aims
  • Our Heritage
  • Pastoral care, wellbeing & mentoring
  • Prayer Resources
  • Prayer resources | Day of prayer 2026
  • Press and Media Enquiries
  • Privacy Policy
  • Profile: Team Leader
  • Psychiatry Day Conference 2025
  • psychiatry specialty network
  • Publications
  • Quick Guides
  • Request a call-back
  • Resident Doctors’ Conference programme
  • Residents
  • Safeguarding Policy
  • Saline Solution
  • Search
  • Seniors
  • Seniors’ Conference 2025 programme
  • Shop
  • Sign In / Join
  • Starting Work
  • Starting Work – NAM
  • Statement of faith
  • Student blog
  • Student conference
  • Student Conference 2025 Programme
  • Student Conference 2026.
  • Student graduation details
  • Student Nurses and Midwives
  • Student Programme 2026
  • Student Programme 2026 | weekend
  • Students
  • Students’ Irish Conference
  • Team roles
  • Test Page
  • the assisted suicide debate – some key CMF resources
  • Trustees
  • Vacancies at CMF
  • Vision, mission, aims & values
  • Volunteer FAQs
  • Volunteer Opportunities
  • Volunteering / Get involved
  • Volunteers Profiles
  • WebFX Test
  • Welcome Scheme
  • What are Catalyst Teams?
  • What We Do
  • Who are you looking for
  • women’s health network
  • Your Profile

Categories

  • Abortion Act
  • Abortion Decriminalistation
  • Assisted Dying
  • Assisted Suicide
  • Audio & VIdeo
  • Bangladesh
  • Bioethics
  • Blog
  • BMA
  • Brazil
  • British Medical Association
  • Cameroon
  • Care
  • Care Not Killing
  • Children
  • Christianity
  • CMF
  • Conscience
  • Conscientious Objection
  • Culture & Society
  • Disability
  • Dying
  • Ectogenesis
  • Ecuador
  • Elderly
  • Elective Reviews
  • End of Life
  • End of Life Care
  • Eswatini
  • Euthanasia
  • Euthanasia Prevention Coalition
  • Falconer Review
  • Featured
  • Francis Report
  • Gender
  • Gender Dysphoria
  • Gender Identity
  • Gender Reassignment
  • Ghana
  • Global Health – Resources
  • Global Health and Mission
  • House Of Commons
  • Human Dignity
  • Humanity
  • Humanity
  • Israel
  • Junior Doctors
  • Junior Doctors
  • Justice
  • Kenya
  • Kier Starmer Mp
  • Law
  • Leadership
  • Maternal Health
  • Medical Ethics
  • Medical Practice
  • Mental Health
  • Midwifery
  • Miscarriage
  • Nepal
  • New Technologies
  • NHS
  • NHS
  • NHS Culture
  • Niger
  • NMC
  • Nursing
  • Nursing
  • Nursing & Midwifery
  • Nursing and Midwifery
  • Nursing And Midwifery Council
  • Oregon
  • Palliative Care
  • Papua New Guinea
  • Persistent Vegetative State
  • Personal Health
  • Peru
  • Philippines
  • Physician-assisted Suicide
  • Politics
  • Politics, Society, & Culture
  • Prayer
  • Press Releases
  • Psychiatry
  • Royal College Of Nursing
  • Rwanda
  • Sex and relationships
  • Society
  • Sri Lanka
  • Start of Life
  • Strikes
  • Submissions
  • Teenagers
  • Three-Parent Embryos
  • Transgender
  • Uganda
  • Uncategorized
  • Wellbeing
  • Wellbeing
  • Zimbabwe

Archive

  • February 2026
  • December 2025
  • August 2025
  • July 2025
  • June 2025
  • April 2025
  • March 2025
  • February 2025
  • January 2025
  • December 2024
  • November 2024
  • October 2024
  • September 2024
  • August 2024
  • July 2024
  • June 2024
  • April 2024
  • March 2024
  • February 2024
  • January 2024
  • December 2023
  • October 2023
  • September 2023
  • August 2023
  • July 2023
  • June 2023
  • May 2023
  • April 2023
  • March 2023
  • February 2023
  • January 2023
  • December 2022
  • November 2022
  • October 2022
  • September 2022
  • July 2022
  • June 2022
  • May 2022
  • April 2022
  • March 2022
  • February 2022
  • January 2022
  • December 2021
  • November 2021
  • October 2021
  • September 2021
  • August 2021
  • July 2021
  • June 2021
  • May 2021
  • April 2021
  • March 2021
  • February 2021
  • January 2021
  • December 2020
  • November 2020
  • October 2020
  • September 2020
  • August 2020
  • July 2020
  • June 2020
  • May 2020
  • April 2020
  • March 2020
  • February 2020
  • January 2020
  • December 2019
  • November 2019
  • October 2019
  • September 2019
  • August 2019
  • June 2019
  • May 2019
  • April 2019
  • March 2019
  • February 2019
  • January 2019
  • December 2018
  • November 2018
  • October 2018
  • September 2018
  • August 2018
  • July 2018
  • June 2018
  • May 2018
  • April 2018
  • March 2018
  • February 2018
  • January 2018
  • December 2017
  • November 2017
  • October 2017
  • September 2017
  • August 2017
  • July 2017
  • June 2017
  • May 2017
  • April 2017
  • March 2017
  • February 2017
  • January 2017
  • December 2016
  • November 2016
  • October 2016
  • September 2016
  • August 2016
  • July 2016
  • June 2016
  • May 2016
  • April 2016
  • March 2016
  • February 2016
  • January 2016
  • December 2015
  • November 2015
  • October 2015
  • September 2015
  • August 2015
  • July 2015
  • June 2015
  • May 2015
  • April 2015
  • March 2015
  • February 2015
  • January 2015
  • December 2014
  • November 2014
  • October 2014
  • September 2014
  • August 2014
  • July 2014
  • June 2014
  • May 2014
  • April 2014
  • March 2014
  • February 2014
  • January 2014
  • December 2013
  • November 2013
  • October 2013
  • September 2013
  • August 2013
  • July 2013
  • June 2013
  • May 2013
  • April 2013
  • March 2013
  • February 2013
  • January 2013
  • December 2012
  • November 2012
  • October 2012
  • September 2012
  • August 2012
  • July 2012
  • June 2012
  • May 2012
  • April 2012
  • March 2012
  • February 2012
  • January 2012
  • December 2011
  • November 2011
  • October 2011
  • September 2011
  • August 2011
  • July 2011
  • June 2011
  • May 2011
  • April 2011
  • March 2011
  • February 2011
  • January 2011
  • December 2010
  • November 2010
  • October 2010
  • September 2010
  • July 2010
  • June 2010
  • April 2010
  • March 2010
  • February 2010
  • January 2010
  • December 2009
  • October 2009
  • 020 7234 9660

  • admin@cmf.org.uk

  • 6 Marshalsea Road, London SE1 1HL

Privacy Policy

© 2026 Christian Medical Fellowship. A company limited by guarantee. Registered in England no. 6949436. Registered Charity no. 1131658. Design: S2 Design
Scroll to top

Join CHLN

The Christian Healthcare Leadership Network (CHLN) is an initiative of the Christian Medical Fellowship (CMF). To be eligible to join the network, you need to be registered with CMF as a Member/ Associate Member or CMF Friend. If you are not already registered as any of the above, please sign up to a member or a friend of CMF before proceeding with your application to join CHLN.
Name(Required)
Would you like to join our monthly prayer WhatsApp group? If so please provide your mobile phone number below
The Christian Healthcare Leadership Network is an initiative of the Christian Medical Fellowship (CMF). To be eligible to join the network, we ask that you are a registered CMF Member/ Associate Member or CMF Friend.
Please confirm that you are a CMF Member or CMF Friend.(Required)

You can update your contact preferences at any time. We take your privacy seriously and will not give your data to any other organisation for their own purposes. For more information see cmf.org.uk/about/privacy-notice

You can update your contact preferences at any time. We take your privacy seriously and will not give your data to any other organisation for their own purposes. For more information see cmf.org.uk/privacy-notice/

Contact the Pastoral Care Team

Pastoral Care is a member benefit for those who join CMF. If you want to access this support, contact us using the form below and we will arrange a telephone call. We aim to get back to you as soon as possible, but we are not a crisis service, and there may, therefore, be a short delay in our response.

Please note, sadly we do not have the capacity to offer this service to non-members.

Please confirm you are a CMF Member(Required)
Name(Required)
Email(Required)
Please use the best number to contact you on
e.g. morning, afternoon
Why are you contacting the Pastoral team?(Required)
We will add them to our daily prayers. Please respect patient confidentiality.
Include information on whether you would like to get some mentoring or become a mentor

You can update your contact preferences at any time. We take your privacy seriously and will not give your data to any other organisation for their own purposes. For more information see cmf.org.uk/privacy-notice/

Request a conference room

"*" indicates required fields

This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.
Name*
Email*
DD slash MM slash YYYY
Please enter a number from 2 to 60.

You can update your contact preferences at any time. We take your privacy seriously and will not give your data to any other organisation for their own purposes. For more information see cmf.org.uk/about/privacy-notice

You can update your contact preferences at any time. We take your privacy seriously and will not give your data to any other organisation for their own purposes. For more information see cmf.org.uk/privacy-notice/

X